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Shar's avatar

I was raised to “stay out the mirror.”

So when I encounter “vain women” I feel inspired to spend a few more minutes in the mirror everyday.

Still learning to exercise my pretty privilege.

Angel's avatar

It’s so interesting that you bring this up because growing up, I too often was told to stay away from the mirror or “you’re always in the mirror.” At 35, I’m finally realizing that I’m becoming the vain woman and learning to exercise my pretty privilege as well.

SheWalksinrua's avatar

Confidence will always be mistaken for arrogance. I loved this article! It resonates ✨

suebereading's avatar

I used to find myself wondering if I was being conceited because of the way I started to spend time with myself, choosing to really see myself, and love on myself. But I realized that it was just that I wasn’t used to doing for myself…just others. So I’m choosing to be even more selfish. Be vain or haughty. It’s about time!

BrittanySylvon's avatar

I love a good “right in your face” reminder of remembering who the fuck you are!

Elaine's avatar

Ooooh, I absolutely love this 💖

Alexandria Riley's avatar

This is the era of my life I am entering into…it feels amazing…it’s exciting…it’s nerve wracking(trying to embrace this natural transition), but I love it!😆

Shar's avatar

I wish I could print this and frame it !!!!!

Ronnie's avatar

Nahhh I love this 🙌. This kind of perspective is needed 🤎

Hana's avatar

Wow! Just wow!!! Being vain literally saved my life in my instances! 💗