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April Kuykendall's avatar

I love how you were so clear and concise on the difference between rituals and routines πŸ‘πŸ½

Grey Huffington's avatar

So important to understand the difference.

suebereading's avatar

i was remembering how my grandmother used to buy me silk nightgowns as a little girl. how i loved how soft they felt against my skin. the little practices she had that I would observe. i lost my way. this rule book is revival. πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎ

Grey Huffington's avatar

My grandmother did the same. From the body powder to the pantyhose 🀎 She made femininity a priority every day.

suebereading's avatar

yes, lace pantyhose and socks with the cute trimmings and kitten heels and dresses…i felt like a princess πŸ₯°

Ange Simson's avatar

This was such a beautiful read, as a woman who’s been dedicated to re-finding my femininity it really hit the spot. Subscribed πŸ“

Grey Huffington's avatar

May your journey be beautiful.

Rae SupremΓ©'s avatar

The girls who get it? GET IT. Another great piece!

Nara's avatar

I want more πŸ™πŸΎπŸ˜

tara's avatar

reading this felt like watching a movie where the main protagonist is a woman who has figured out how to live

Honeycolouredmistress's avatar

I’ve always been enamoured by soft, beautiful, elegant and selfish women. I often find myself coming back to that lifestyle because it is meant for me to embody too. Thank you for such a well written article. I really enjoyed reading it over a cup of hibiscus tea πŸŒΊπŸ«–

Grey Huffington's avatar

They are the standard, truly. Beautiful inside and out.

sierra’s diary..'s avatar

Thank you for this!

Grey Huffington's avatar

You’re welcome.

LaShanah Holmes's avatar

I need you in my pocket at all times lol. Thank you so much for this. This was so nurturing to read. I felt cared for and gently put on to such an elevated way of being and it was a reminder to me also to stay in that. Work to stay in that. Love alwaysπŸ¦‹

Grey Huffington's avatar

🀎🀎

Voertje's avatar

I agree. My rituals are deeply tied to my femininity β€” they give me power and grounding. They’re the small, intentional moments where I come back to myself, honor my body, and move through the world with more softness and certainty. What looks like routine from the outside feels sacred to me.

Mschelsea's avatar

Yes, I love this

MELANNIE's avatar

As someone who wants to create more rituals than routines to become more feminine, this is exactly what I needed. This piece was amazing πŸ’•

Grey Huffington's avatar

Sending you all the girl vibes 🀎

Marissa Tonge's avatar

Thank you for these beautiful reminders. It absolutely requires discipline to show up as the feminine women that we admire and desire to be. But once we adopt the rituals and practices, it naturally becomes part of who we are over time and eventually effortless.

H.R.I.C (Head Rebel In Charge)'s avatar

Almost at sickeningly feminine level, I just have to release the shackles of "I'll do it myself" and mind trapping...

This is a beautiful piece!

Dela's avatar

Less words and discipline. That’s really it.

The moment I started speaking less and smiling my conversational agreements and indications of pleasures my husband became more protective and thoughtful.

A woman’s power is in her quietness. Men have no counter for it.

Medya's avatar

This seems to be a general guideline on how a polite person should behave whether it be man or woman lol